The Ten Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Approaching Women
1. Don’t wait to approach her until she’s alone. Even if she likes you, her friends will soon drag her away.
2. Don’t stare at her for more than three seconds before approaching. Hesitate, and you’ll either creep her out or psyche yourself out.
3. Don’t be apprehensive to approach her because she is surrounded by a group with some men in it. Usually, after you meet everyone you’ll learn that these guys are family, friends, or co-workers.
4. Never begin a conversation with a woman by saying sorry. Expressions such as “Excuse me ” “Pardon me ” and “I’m sorry, but” make you seem like a beggar.
5. Don’t hit on her or give her a generic compliment. Instead, start a conversation with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as asking the group to suggest names for a three-legged cat or a store that sells 70’s memorabilia. It may sound corny, but everyone loves to give their opinion.
6. Never, ever buy her a drink. You shouldn’t have to pay for her attention.
7. Never touch or grab her straight away. If she touches you, then respond to her by smiling and stating, “Whoa now, hands off the merchandise.”
8. Don’t lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music’s too loud or she’s seated, simply speak up.
9. Don’t ask her what her name is, what she does for a living, or where she’s from. She’s bored of talking about the same things with every new guy she meets.
10. Never give her all of your attention when she’s in a group. If her friends find you fun and interesting, then you will win her attraction.